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Grandpa died yesterday morning, Paul feels entitled as shit, both my uncles want to go against grandpa's wishes (not expressed in the will) and sell a house he meant to give to my dad, they all almost get into a knock down drag out with my brother John and Uncle Chest holding back Dad and Paul, respectively, Dad gets smashed with John and comes home and I see him cry for the first time ever and I can't do this anymore.

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Darling, I'm so sorry. If you ever need someone to talk to I'm here.

Thanks, hun. I don't know much of what I can say on the subject, but I appreciate it <3

*huggles tightly* I am so sorry.
Is there any way to stop your uncles from selling the house?

Probably not. I mean, Chester's in charge and he's looking for the quickest exit out of it, and the one that will shut Paul up, which is selling the house and them all getting a third cut from everything sold. Which pisses me off, because Paul's actually getting more out of it, basically taking over Papa's house and I think he's getting Papa's Jetta too and it's a huge mess, but Paul's a greedy bastard that won't stop till he gets his way.

That is just horrible.
I don't even know what else to say. Just wow. I can't believe how greedy your uncle Paul is.
Just...wow.

Ugh, this sort of family feuding is the worst. It's been a year and a half since my grandmother died and my mom and her sister are still fighting their other sister and their father in court over this stuff.

That's my way of saying I can totally relate. *hugs* Hopefully they'll be enlightened a lot sooner than my aunt and grandfather and just go along with your late grandfather's wishes. I don't understand why people can't respect the wishes of the dead.

It really brings out the worst in people. My dad's trying to do what's right, Chester's trying to do what's easy, Paul's trying to to what's best for himself, and they can't agree on anything. I hate to say it, but by not making things clear in the will is what allowed elbowroom for this kind of squabbling. I hate it.

It was Papa's wish, sure, but from what I understand, it's not in the will, just verbally expressed. Dad had his word, and Paul will contest anything if it meant he could profit.

Thanks bb :)

I'm so sorry bb. :(
*hugs

It's all just too raw right now. You all help make me normal again.

*huge hugs*

Oh, I am so sorry.

If you ever need to talk or anything, just let me know. You were one of the people who was there for me when mom died last month, so I'll not abandon you now.

Anything, just let me know.

Thank you very much for being here, Ken. We both know it's a pretty miserable time when a relative dies, and I just hope to god there's no infighting with your family as there is with mine.

*bighugs*
I'm sure you've got plenty of friends surrounding you, but y'know, my offer still stands for a friendly ear any time you want it. I never know what to say in these times, but I'll listen to anything you want to say, or even if you want to talk about nothing of any importance at all.

It's all very broken and angry and sad in the family itself, but I'm very thankful for you all and my friends that I get to see whenever I can. Just thanks a bunch ♥

*hugs*

thanks, bb

*hugs tight*

I'm so sorry, sweets.

Aw, sweetie, I'm so sorry you and your fam are having to go through that. :(
I'll keep my fingers crossed/say a prayer that they snap out of it.
::doctor hugs::

lovelovelove

this is the kind of thing that makes me think that if one day i have a family of my own i will make sure everyone gets the fuck on

i'm sorry you have to deal with feuding on top of mourning. surround yourself with good people. & hugs.

I'm so sorry, bb.

omg lovely I am so so sorry to hear that. I'm sure there isn't anything I can say or do to make things better, but if there is you know I am here! *major hugs*

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